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Ghosting is abruptly not responding to attempts at communication. Men are in a decent privileged position where most women to most dates, culturally, wont init
by vmception 4y ago
Ghosting is abruptly not responding to attempts at communication.
Men are in a decent privileged position where most women to most dates, culturally, wont initiate an attempt at communication. so its very easy for us to just never acknowledge the date because we never sent another text.
But thats not ghosting.
Ghosting is having a great date (or a benign one, or a bad one) and never getting a response again, or even blocked, or not even knowing if your date got home at all but not being in a position to even ask. As another person wrote, it doesn’t have any regard for the psychological consequences. Its more likely I would switch to Liam Neeson Taken mode to help a complete stranger than risk getting myself villified for trying to see if my unresponsive date made it home. The culture broke itself.