LOL the idea that "just so you know, I don't want to see you again" is the solution to ghosting is hilarious. That's someone being mean to you at a level about

LOL the idea that "just so you know, I don't want to see you again" is the solution to ghosting is hilarious. That's someone being mean to you at a level about as damaging as ghosting. There is this magical thing called care that can be put into words to avoid either. "Just so you know, it was great to see you again, but there isn't anything romantic there for me. Sorry it took me X dates to get there. You're a cool person and I wish you all the best for your next date. I'm sure you'll blow the right person away when you meet them."