> i.e. imitating the correct gestures, but very few people put in the effort to actually learn to become a good communicator. Reminds me of Celeste Headlee's c

> i.e. imitating the correct gestures, but very few people put in the effort to actually learn to become a good communicator. Reminds me of Celeste Headlee's comment: "There's no reason to learn how to show you're paying attention, if you are in fact paying attention." EDIT: I guess the reversal the article is talking about is that you now need to learn how to pretend not to be an effective communicator, because it's not part of the current social norm.