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> come in with enough material to carry a conversation for these 1-4 hours Wow you need a whole multi-part Netflix special just to go on a first date.
by chrisseaton 5y ago
> come in with enough material to carry a conversation for these 1-4 hours
Wow you need a whole multi-part Netflix special just to go on a first date.
- blfr 5y agoKinda but not really. First, you can reuse and even steal material heavily. Second, you can rely on props, whatever happens around. Third, you don't need to be that good: you're competing with six other boring dudes she went out with and her uncle, not Tim Dillon. Finally, after a while she will pick up and start talking herself. Then you can bounce off that, tease, make fun. This is the best anyway since anything about her is by default interesting.
- chrisseaton 5y ago> Second, you can rely on props I’ve clearly got no idea how people are dating these days…
- eternalban 5y agoA friend of mine met her future husband via a dating site. He apparently brought Scrabble to the first date. (The marriage is successful.)
- arunprakash01 5y ago[flagged]
- Der_Einzige 5y agoThis is called "jester-maxxing" or "goof-maxxing" for a reason. The negative connotations are more than warranted...