> Part of the reason is college lacks structured socializing time and I am really bad at unstructured socializing. That sounds weird. I don't know what the Ame

> Part of the reason is college lacks structured socializing time and I am really bad at unstructured socializing. That sounds weird. I don't know what the American college experience is like (I just work here), but my experience in Finland was the opposite. I've had difficulties in making friends in adult life, because I'm also bad at unstructured socializing. When I was a student, there were opportunities for structured socializing everywhere. There were something like 250 student organizations in the university, and many of them also had national umbrella organizations, national meetings, and shared activities with similar organizations in other universities.