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"I feel really angry that you said my colleague was lazy. As her manager, I know that she has been working late every day, including the weekends, to hit these
by jimkleiber 4y ago
"I feel really angry that you said my colleague was lazy. As her manager, I know that she has been working late every day, including the weekends, to hit these deadlines."
EDIT: Another example: "I feel quite angry right now and it probably has less to do with what you did and more to do with the fact that I haven't eaten yet. So before we do my performance review, could we get lunch so I might be in a better mood to hear it?"
I think that would be a way to express anger connected to facts. Do you think that is still something people should keep to themselves?
- ncmncm 4y agoThese seem defensible. But it's a slippery slope we are all better off not on.
- jimkleiber 4y agoI'd say it could be a slippery slope. But so can passive aggression. I believe the emotion often leaks out in other ways regardless, whether thru our comments or our distancing or more distrust etc. I guess I believe that articulating it can stop the slope from slipping so much.