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This! I am shocked how often men act as if they have to be someone else and then wonder why their dating life went nowhere.

• the_only_law 5y ago
  > I am shocked how often men act as if they have to be someone else Look at the advice for dating profiles on Reddit. This is apparently the ideal for online dating. Remove any eccentricities, actual hobbies, and create some contrived person with staged pics and hobbies you don’t actually care for but are more socially presentable, etc…