I was never as appalled as I was when watching very successful, intelligent female friends of mine use Tinder. The shallowness of it is unparalleled. The quickn

I was never as appalled as I was when watching very successful, intelligent female friends of mine use Tinder. The shallowness of it is unparalleled. The quickness with which they'd reject perfectly good looking people was hard to believe. There's a lot to say about how the structure and dynamics. of a tool guide how we use it, and that's very much at play here. These same people acted FAR different in the outside world. I think the notion of a complete lack of scarcity leads our brains in this unachievable quest for perfection (based on nothing but a picture). I'd say get off the platform, but you also have to go where the people are! I'm just glad I'm not dating anymore.