Yes, exactly. And to add to your list, there are also people who are not carrying buckets, because "I didn't start the fire, others are making it worse, so what

Yes, exactly. And to add to your list, there are also people who are not carrying buckets, because "I didn't start the fire, others are making it worse, so what's the point in even trying to carry a bucket." The worst thing is feeling defeated, even though you could actually be helping. Doesn't even matter if you're carrying a shot glass or a whole barrel full of water, at least you're doing the best you can.