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Disclaimer: This is not medical advice and I’m not a medical professional. This may sound snarky but it’s not. Focus on life and not career and do not give int
by gautamdivgi 4y ago
Disclaimer: This is not medical advice and I’m not a medical professional.
This may sound snarky but it’s not. Focus on life and not career and do not give into impostor syndrome. I’ve been where you are and after a significant illness for my then 3 yr old (pre-covid, and she’s doing really well now) made me re-evaluate my choices.
Work smart in your career and make sure life is taken care of first. Working hard rarely nets results unless you’re working hard for yourself (i.e. your own business, startup, hobby, side hustle, etc.).
If your immediate friend circle is mostly people who are focused on career and advancement (if I’m being presumptuous is where the feelings of regret are coming from) I would work to slowly change it and find some other hobbies. At this point, with your paycheck you are doing a whole lot better than 95% of the worlds population.
If this is overwhelming you - please seek professional help fast.