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I would wish for true love.

• kite_and_code 4y ago
  What was your experience with that in the past?
  • trifit 4y ago
    Not great, I don’t think I was ready and messed it up. Oh well, plenty of fishes in the sea. How about you?
    • kite_and_code 4y ago
      Do you have hope that you will find it in the future? It seems like you did not find it yet? I am grateful that I found my key to love both with my spouse but also via being increasingly able to connect to all the other lovely persons and creatures (dogs,...) in my life :) But it was a long path for me. For me, I discovered it more and more after years of dancing Salsa, Bachata etc where the best teachers always focus on connection as well as leading and following. Those experiences together with regularly changing between the lead and the follow - while always being clear who plays which part - was the key for me. And also the book "Hold me Tight" gave me mental clarity which led to mental clarity for organizing the experiences that I had in my life before. It was a life-changing event for me when I learned about this. together with watching the following video (which I did 1 year before and practiced it regularly with my wife): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l7TONauJGfc&t=2s https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l7TONauJGfc&t=2s
• gsliepen 4y ago
  As shown in this cartoon: https://pbfcomics.com/comics/wishing-well/ https://pbfcomics.com/comics/wishing-well/
  • JohnDeHope 4y ago
    That is the most damning thing I've seen lately.
  • kite_and_code 4y ago
    haha! good one. Too bad the guy is illusioned. In the end, I think he made the right choice, though! However, I might want to remind me of this from time to time, too, when I get lured by other things where I think they are incompatible with the true love I already found.
  • gaws 4y ago
    If it was true love, his girlfriend would support him in all his hobbies and interests, and he shouldn't feel held back.