Was in a similar position. The way I coped was not to think of the past, life’s too short to do that. Be in the present and build your future. Also some good a

Was in a similar position. The way I coped was not to think of the past, life’s too short to do that. Be in the present and build your future. Also some good advice: don’t kick yourself for your decision. It was YOU who decided it that way, if you were to rewind the clocks, the same person you were before would make the same decision. That was who you were before, so never beat yourself up over it