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You should seek professional help. I’m sorry if this comes off as mean but from what you wrote it doesn’t sound like you’re someone I would actually like to wo
by scyzoryk_xyz 5y ago
You should seek professional help.
I’m sorry if this comes off as mean but from what you wrote it doesn’t sound like you’re someone I would actually like to work with in any capacity. You sound like the lead character of Clerks - “I’m not even supposed to be here today”.
Not knowing anymore than you wrote I’m pretty sure with that attitude if you took that other path you would be in exactly the same spot you are today: thinking about that other guy.
I hope you find some inner peace and career fulfillment.
- zmxz 5y agoI wanted to write what you wrote, but yours is on point and way more eloquent. I agree with this comment 100%. To OP: please, do look for professional help. It's impossible to play dr. House online, but if I pair my experience of dealing with people with the problem you described, I would guess that you're not happy to begin with - and that spilled over to your career life. Explore whether there's a root problem, if yes - solve that problem. Then the symptoms will go away.
- dominotw 5y ago> it doesn’t sound like you’re someone I would actually like to work with in any capacity. How are your feelings about what kind of people you don't want to work with are relevant here ?
- alar44 5y agoThis is a "public forum" where people have "conversations" and "discuss ideas". When people have a "conversation" it is sometimes helpful to express an "opinion".
- dominotw 5y agoI was asking gp how it ties to what OP is talking about. I wasn't implying shouldn't have said that.
- scyzoryk_xyz 5y agoOP is expressing dissatisfaction with their career progress. My implication is that this lack of progress might have something to do with how well they work with others. Grumpy, unhappy, unpleasant or difficult people are often unaware of how they come off to others.