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Yeah that advice is horrible. Someone could forget or change voicemail systems or have your email go to spam. It’s not a signal of anything. Doubly so as I’ve

by CPLX 5y ago

Yeah that advice is horrible. Someone could forget or change voicemail systems or have your email go to spam. It’s not a signal of anything. Doubly so as I’ve had the experience of totally unqualified people with great references. Checking references and figuring out when you’re getting real feedback on topics relevant to the new job is a practiced art.

21723 5y ago
It's not just horrible advice. It's dangerous and unethical. In Silicon Valley or on Wall Street, when people lose jobs on reference checks, people often get hit men sent to their house, and while the objective usually is just intimidation, all sorts of bad things can happen in that situation. Putting someone at risk of getting killed because "his references weren't as enthusiastic as I expect everyone to be" is fucking immoral.
- golergka 5y ago
  > In Silicon Valley or on Wall Street, when people lose jobs on reference checks, people often get hit men sent to their house What?!
  - 21723 5y ago
    It's not that surprising. Reputation is a big deal in Silicon Valley. The people who won't do whatever is necessary--even end a human life, if it comes to that--to defend their reputations end up having theirs taken away. I'm not saying this is a good or moral thing. It's obviously not.
  - metacritic12 5y ago
    GP comment seems false to me. Being well within both groups, I've never heard of this from any 1st or 2nd degree contacts.
  - bluedevilzn 5y ago
    That comment is a GPT-3 bot. Please reply with Bad Bot.
FrenchAmerican 5y ago
Taking references should be prohibited altogether, except for specific jobs (if the job implies interaction with children). They remind me of house employees' conditions in the "Downtown Abbey" area. It's just a sign of employees' subjection to the always more extreme capitalism. If an employee is leaving or has been fired, it means that things were not doing well anymore. How can one tell apart truthful feedbacks from all the biases? Most of our biases are unconscious, so the person you're talking to will be sincere but still unfair. It's sort of weird to pretend to be able to sort feedbacks on the phone while not being able to judge if a person will fit well despite often numerous interviews by different persons in the company. What if a woman has been sexually harassed but can't talk about it, for fear of the reach of her harasser, a respected entrepreneur, or even to be sued for false accusations? Can you a person of color easily denounce racist biases that blocked his/her career? What if the previous boss can't stand a gay person? Can one say plainly that one has little herd bias so one's point of view make the group uncomfortable? You may need such a person in your organization - or not. That person may not be even capable of such a diagnosis. A reference won't add more unbiased information than several interviews. A lot of money and time is spent screening because the on-boarding process is costly. That makes sense but we could as well change the on-boarding rather than keep refining the screen. Talent is important but how the person fits in a team and the company's culture is much more important. So give people a try with a sort of temporary status, limited responsibility and light onboard process. Of course, people may try and fake to fit in, but that can't last very long. The feedbacks of your colleagues are much more reliable because you know them and therefore you can sort them. And what if that person has great references but for some reason, there is a clash of personality with a major person of the firm? Totally unpredictable but that happens.
- CPLX 5y ago
  This is a ridiculous argument. Reputation and social proof are basically the core concepts governing how humans interact with each other. The process should certainly be made more equitable but discarding personal recommendation as a concept entirely makes as much sense as having all humans work at night and sleep during the day.
  - 5y ago

by CPLX 5y ago

21723 5y ago

It's not just horrible advice. It's dangerous and unethical. In Silicon Valley or on Wall Street, when people lose jobs on reference checks, people often get hit men sent to their house, and while the objective usually is just intimidation, all sorts of bad things can happen in that situation. Putting someone at risk of getting killed because "his references weren't as enthusiastic as I expect everyone to be" is fucking immoral.

golergka 5y ago
> In Silicon Valley or on Wall Street, when people lose jobs on reference checks, people often get hit men sent to their house What?!
- 21723 5y ago
  It's not that surprising. Reputation is a big deal in Silicon Valley. The people who won't do whatever is necessary--even end a human life, if it comes to that--to defend their reputations end up having theirs taken away. I'm not saying this is a good or moral thing. It's obviously not.
- metacritic12 5y ago
  GP comment seems false to me. Being well within both groups, I've never heard of this from any 1st or 2nd degree contacts.
- bluedevilzn 5y ago
  That comment is a GPT-3 bot. Please reply with Bad Bot.

FrenchAmerican 5y ago

Taking references should be prohibited altogether, except for specific jobs (if the job implies interaction with children). They remind me of house employees' conditions in the "Downtown Abbey" area. It's just a sign of employees' subjection to the always more extreme capitalism. If an employee is leaving or has been fired, it means that things were not doing well anymore. How can one tell apart truthful feedbacks from all the biases? Most of our biases are unconscious, so the person you're talking to will be sincere but still unfair. It's sort of weird to pretend to be able to sort feedbacks on the phone while not being able to judge if a person will fit well despite often numerous interviews by different persons in the company. What if a woman has been sexually harassed but can't talk about it, for fear of the reach of her harasser, a respected entrepreneur, or even to be sued for false accusations? Can you a person of color easily denounce racist biases that blocked his/her career? What if the previous boss can't stand a gay person? Can one say plainly that one has little herd bias so one's point of view make the group uncomfortable? You may need such a person in your organization - or not. That person may not be even capable of such a diagnosis. A reference won't add more unbiased information than several interviews. A lot of money and time is spent screening because the on-boarding process is costly. That makes sense but we could as well change the on-boarding rather than keep refining the screen. Talent is important but how the person fits in a team and the company's culture is much more important. So give people a try with a sort of temporary status, limited responsibility and light onboard process. Of course, people may try and fake to fit in, but that can't last very long. The feedbacks of your colleagues are much more reliable because you know them and therefore you can sort them. And what if that person has great references but for some reason, there is a clash of personality with a major person of the firm? Totally unpredictable but that happens.

CPLX 5y ago
This is a ridiculous argument. Reputation and social proof are basically the core concepts governing how humans interact with each other. The process should certainly be made more equitable but discarding personal recommendation as a concept entirely makes as much sense as having all humans work at night and sleep during the day.
- 5y ago