How would this help? Let's say that I find it annoying when people "missbehave", like people letting their dogs shit wherever and not cleaning up, or just comm

How would this help? Let's say that I find it annoying when people "missbehave", like people letting their dogs shit wherever and not cleaning up, or just commonly being selfish and rude. How do I now understand myself better? Is the point that the problem is somehow in me or what does this advice mean?