My parents, who have succeeded to positively-educate us (never a slap or punishment, nor retribution for good behavior; just congratulate good behavior and expl

My parents, who have succeeded to positively-educate us (never a slap or punishment, nor retribution for good behavior; just congratulate good behavior and explain), have always been to the church discussion groups, the family- and couple-oriented ones. It at least gives a framework on what to talk about, and a framework that most other couples are willing to talk about.