It’s not even just the lack of benefit caused by the message not getting through. I think people who communicate too intensely, too aggressively, forget that th

It’s not even just the lack of benefit caused by the message not getting through. I think people who communicate too intensely, too aggressively, forget that the communication is part of the listener’s life. If someone feels like shit when they talk to you, you’re already in the red for whatever net impact you want to have on their life.