I just think its one of those areas where different people need different advice. We can draw a spectrum called "confidence bias". On one end of the spectrum a

I just think its one of those areas where different people need different advice. We can draw a spectrum called "confidence bias". On one end of the spectrum are your "blowhard bullshitters". At the other end of the spectrum are people who are so scared to be seen that they keep themselves small. You know where on the spectrum you are. Aim toward the middle.