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> * In stark contrast to asking questions and trying to understand. But I have family members who are the "look everything up and then try to tell my doctor how
by travisjungroth 5y ago
> * In stark contrast to asking questions and trying to understand. But I have family members who are the "look everything up and then try to tell my doctor how they're going to treat me" ilk and it's crazy.
I still think it’s better than the other extreme of just showing up and trusting the professionals. That should work in theory, but my experience for myself and those around me is it’s incredibly ineffective. If what you’re dealing with requires the least bit of thought, odds are you’re getting brushed off to the extent you allow.
The real model of US healthcare is essentially apprentice/master, with the patient as apprentice. Apprentice does a lot of the work, not all, some needs to be approved by the master and the apprentice better know how to learn from the master, when to push back, and how to make it seem like it was their idea all along. You can imagine how this falls apart for mental health.
- AlphaOne1 5y agoI also think the complete implosion of family medicine has made this worse. In the past, you would keep the same family medicine doctor for decades and trust them. They in turn would know what your values and priorities are. Moreover, they would be able to guide you through difficult healthcare decisions that inevitably come up (cancer diagnosis, mental health etc.). We have lost the human connection aspect of medicine and those few physicians that are able to hang on to it are burning out due to the massive amounts of paperwork they need to accomplish. From the hospital perspective, (which many physicians now work for) good paperwork=good patient care. Paperwork is measurable. Relationships (other than in the abstract) are not.