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As narcissistic as I am, I don’t think I’m “talented.” I’m just like everybody else — can get pretty decent at a lot of things. But also just like everybody els
by paulcole 5y ago
As narcissistic as I am, I don’t think I’m “talented.” I’m just like everybody else — can get pretty decent at a lot of things. But also just like everybody else I like to pretend I’m talented at the things I put work into. And I like to pretend that people who are good at things I haven’t put work into are talented in a way that I’m not.
- orangecat 5y agoAs narcissistic as I am, I don’t think I’m “talented.” Huh. To me it seems more narcissistic for someone to say that they have no special talent and that their success is entirely due to their superior work ethic and years of study and sacrifice. I’m just like everybody else — can get pretty decent at a lot of things. That's a very different claim than "innate talent doesn't exist".
- paulcole 5y ago> That's a very different claim than "innate talent doesn't exist". Yes! This is why I never said innate talent doesn’t exist.
- ravi-delia 5y agoI mean, by hours at this point I've definitely put more time in to math than any other subject, but it was easy from the start! Maybe I'm enough of a fuckup that it intensifies differences in ability which would otherwise be too small to notice - like math took close to 0 effort to do and want to do, so anything else is unbearable. Doesn't square with just how much effort I put into history though.