what you say is true, but I reckon the more expensive the wedding, the more enduring it probably is. Weddings are a signal. The louder the signal, then the bi

what you say is true, but I reckon the more expensive the wedding, the more enduring it probably is. Weddings are a signal. The louder the signal, then the bigger the bet, and thus, the more you have riding on that bet. Weddings are a choice, but they are a choice of sending a strong signal to others. You should not discount the powerful effect it may have over the marriage itself.