> And if you manage to successfully create some hybrid structure The problem I have with that stance is the difficulty of "manag[ing] to successfully create so

> And if you manage to successfully create some hybrid structure The problem I have with that stance is the difficulty of "manag[ing] to successfully create some hybrid structure". Personally I've never seen polyamory succeed over multiple attempts, and each time results in at least one person being hurt. There's something to be said for discouraging activities that are unlikely to work out and can potentially be damaging.