There is a lot of shame in not being able to take care of yourself even if no one blames you. So you cant buy flowers - ever, cant take her out - ever, cant tak

There is a lot of shame in not being able to take care of yourself even if no one blames you. So you cant buy flowers - ever, cant take her out - ever, cant take her on vacation - ever, cant buy a gift, not even on her birthday - ever. Sometimes there is food! That is suppose to be it? Not everyone is stupid enough to go ahead and have kids at that point. Renting your own room is required to be an angry asshole who failed at life on your own for a while - or indefinitely.