There are plenty of books and blogs and sites about this. Gamedev.net is probably as decent a place as any to start. But I sincerely ask you to reconsider the l

There are plenty of books and blogs and sites about this. Gamedev.net is probably as decent a place as any to start. But I sincerely ask you to reconsider the level of importance you're putting on doing everything yourself. Unless you're okay with probably never finishing a project.