Longtime devoted Nexus/Pixel user that started with the HTC Dream/Tmobile G1 as my first ever smartphone. I use an iphone SE (2020) now. I miss the palm sized

Longtime devoted Nexus/Pixel user that started with the HTC Dream/Tmobile G1 as my first ever smartphone. I use an iphone SE (2020) now. I miss the palm sized computer that is an android phone and all its greater freedoms for sideloading, custom roms, etc. But now I just want a stable quickly updated and patched phone I don't have to worry about. I want half a decade+ of updates. Leaving the tinkering to the dirt cheap pinephone I have at home.