You're going to have to absolve yourself of popular narratives and 24/7 news if you want the truth. This isn't about grandmothers with guns, it's that there's a

You're going to have to absolve yourself of popular narratives and 24/7 news if you want the truth. This isn't about grandmothers with guns, it's that there's a probability I meet someone on Grindr and they intend to harm me as fundamentalist people do. Or they stalk me and get a group to bash me. They don't need a gun to do that, but I need one to protect from it.