I am also projecting some anger at a specific scenario. I am not that introverted, but I prefer to spend my social time with my partner, my parents, my in-laws,

I am also projecting some anger at a specific scenario. I am not that introverted, but I prefer to spend my social time with my partner, my parents, my in-laws, and my friends. I am not interested in going to an office which takes me several thousand miles away from those loved ones just so a work acquaintance can get their fill of in-person interaction. That person should truly invest in their own network and not a thin work relationship that will evaporate during the next re-org or job change.