Videos I would go with Jellyfin for self-hosted. Its FOSS (forked from Emby). It has no ads, free to use. Steam client for games. For music, I use Spotify (shou

Videos I would go with Jellyfin for self-hosted. Its FOSS (forked from Emby). It has no ads, free to use. Steam client for games. For music, I use Spotify (should work on LOS or jailbroken devices), but if you want to self-host Airsonic or Navidrome or something like that. For YouTube I'd go with Premium (from Romania if you're from EU) or NewPipe.