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> But maybe it should be This is just baffling to me. What are you even saying. Are you under the impression that being more social makes you less introverted
by bluefirebrand 5y ago
> But maybe it should be
This is just baffling to me. What are you even saying.
Are you under the impression that being more social makes you less introverted? The way lifting weights makes your body stronger?
It doesn't. It just makes you appear that way to ignorant people who still think being an introvert means you aren't very social.
Being social is a skill you can practice.
Being an introvert has nothing to do with that skill.
- unethical_ban 5y agoI'll take your assertion into consideration as I research the topic, I mean it. Yes, I for one believe socialization and introversion are correlated. I used to be more extroverted, and now I am not, and the timing correlates with some life experiences including the pandemic and WFH. I am not a king legislating that everyone think like me, but in my personal experience, to be introverted is to have anti-social tendencies, and that is something that is suboptimal, all other things being equal.
- HeyLaughingBoy 5y agoAge may have something to do with it. I read (don't remember where) that around age 40 our personalities tend to change in that regard: introverts may become more extroverted and vice versa. Unfortunately, I can't remember what, if any, the explanation given was.
- HeyLaughingBoy 5y agoTrust me, I know what it means to be an introvert. I live deep in that particular forest! What I meant is that it is possible to reduce your level of introversion and actually enjoy being around people more and having it become less draining. In a way it's the reverse of what you said: becoming less introverted makes it easier to be more social. Yes, I've done it. No, I can't really explain to someone else what it was that I did.