I'm 38 and after having moved and gotten sober, I'm lonely as hell. People these days are very self-centered and not very interested in making new friends. Plus

I'm 38 and after having moved and gotten sober, I'm lonely as hell. People these days are very self-centered and not very interested in making new friends. Plus what they value in friends seems to be different than it used to be. Not to mention there are fewer spaces dedicated to male bonding which makes making guy friends even harder since everyone seems only interested in chasing romantic encounters most of the time.