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I read somewhere that, "In order to be interesting, you have to be interested." So many people are just not interested. Or maybe they're too afraid to be inter
by givemeethekeys 5y ago
I read somewhere that, "In order to be interesting, you have to be interested."
So many people are just not interested. Or maybe they're too afraid to be interested. Or maybe they have distorted expectations of themselves before they think they'll be cool enough to show interest. Starting a conversation feels like a massive risk.
And all of this existed before the pandemic started. Add all the social distancing to the mix and we have a population of introverts.
- yobbo 5y ago> "In order to be interesting, you have to be interested." This is backwards. Rather, unsolicited DMs are only acceptable if you are already deemed interesting, ie some sort of social media "celebrity".