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If I let my child go out on his own, he would get hit by a car almost immediately.
by dqpb 5y ago
If I let my child go out on his own, he would get hit by a car almost immediately.
- losvedir 5y agoShould probably teach him how to avoid that...
- trgn 5y agoYes, of course. It's and/and. Should also teach that driver to slow down, and be prepared to come to an emergency stop at any given time. Or have streets that naturally slow down traffic by their design, if that's too hard for the driver. Your comment comes from a value system which I find sociopathic. I think it's much more important that the public realm is safe for all, which includes toddlers running errands alone, than that cars should be able to travel at high speed. And beyond that, when piloting 3-ton heavy machinery, one has more responsibility. It's something drivers seem unwilling to accept, rather let's blame the child on foot instead.
- jhugo 5y agoDidn't sound like blame to me. The reality we live in has too many cars, too fast cars, too large cars. The kid lives in that reality now and probably won't get a chance to be a kid in a different reality. Therefore, it would be a good idea to help them to learn to safely explore their world, with some independence, in the reality that they actually live in.
- trgn 5y agoI 100% agree with you on this But no matter how well you teach that toddler to be careful, there are few places in the US where it would be safe from inattentive drives to send them out on an errand. That's the problem.
- dqpb 5y agoEven I have trouble avoiding it.