" the effects of which I'm still working through 15 years later." " slide into my DMs like a thirsty fuckboy trying to curry favour in my Insta inbox." " Did

" the effects of which I'm still working through 15 years later." " slide into my DMs like a thirsty fuckboy trying to curry favour in my Insta inbox." " Did this person look me up and realise that I'm actually pretty hot? " Got to love this type of writing. Feels a bit dramatic, but don't know their relationship. I once said something that was a saying I used all the time, but was highly offensive to a friend (very rightly, as soon as I said it I realized it could be taken the wrong way). We never talked again. I was too embarrassed and immature to know how to apologize. I ended up crossing paths with her on facebook and sent a friend request. She accepted. I've sometimes felt that an apology can be an intrusion - I've not msg'ed her at all. But to say I felt better is a huge understatement. She is happy and married with two kids so that was even better to see. I'm married with two kids too. There are perhaps 3-4 people I feel bad about how I treated them. One was in elementary school when I was maybe in 3rd grade. I hope they all went on to do amazing things. Can someone feel badly about what they did? For sure. I wouldn't mind if one or two folks who bullied me said hey man, I'm sorry about it. I'd say don't worry. But even more I wish I'd never been an occasional total jerk.