They focus on the "healing", it strikes me as so ridiculous. It is a choice to think about the ancient past and key words like healing are all implicitly based

They focus on the "healing", it strikes me as so ridiculous. It is a choice to think about the ancient past and key words like healing are all implicitly based on chosing to bother thinking about something in the first place. A couple decades back when I told my parents I wasn't interested in their religion anymore and couldn't deal with the guilt of dishonestly letting them believe I was, they immediately blamed themselves thinking the root cause was all the crappy stuff they did when I was a kid. I was totally shocked, even as a teen I didn't take most any of it seriously. In my mind, it was never part of my "real life" because I was just so many months away from leaving their home forever. Likewise with the nonsense events in 4 years of highschool. People really need to be told they have a choice to think about something or not, I guess.