Choice? Good package manager and tool setup out of the box? Not having to buy a bunch of $10 utilities every 3 years to fix basic OS pain points that end up bro

Choice? Good package manager and tool setup out of the box? Not having to buy a bunch of $10 utilities every 3 years to fix basic OS pain points that end up broken by an OS update or Apple killing some thing? macOS wants you do things the Apple way and going against that is a lot of pain in my experience for little gain. My 2018 MBP would lose battery on sleep too. I don't even know what shutdown does because the force trackpad still keeps clicking while "off".