> do people of all genders, upon hearing this term, feel included, rather than othered How other people feel is not something anyone can control. If someone is

> do people of all genders, upon hearing this term, feel included, rather than othered How other people feel is not something anyone can control. If someone is clearly addressing a group you are a part of, and clearly means to include you in their address to the group, and you decide to feel "othered" because of this term or that term, that is your problem. You need to re-evaluate how you feel. People feel all sorts of ways about everything. Sometimes your feelings are wrong.