> I am responding to them with my thoughts You're responding with your thoughts in ways that could seem calculated to inspire ire and to offend. Most folks don

> I am responding to them with my thoughts You're responding with your thoughts in ways that could seem calculated to inspire ire and to offend. Most folks don't consider that good-faith discussion. I don't think you're doing it on purpose. But maybe you'll find more constructive responses if you more deeply consider the emotional charge of how you choose to put words together.