I seek challenges because they lead to growth and growth can yield opportunity, but I do try to balance reality too :). That said, nobody on their deathbed has

I seek challenges because they lead to growth and growth can yield opportunity, but I do try to balance reality too :). That said, nobody on their deathbed has wished the worked harder/longer/etc. Family first - just realize that they don't need as much of your time as you likely think they do. An hour an evening, a few hours each day on the weekend and you are already winning.