There's no comprehensive guide because there's no silver bullet solution. There are a few guides and talks about techniques but you'll want to string together

There's no comprehensive guide because there's no silver bullet solution. There are a few guides and talks about techniques but you'll want to string together a few to suit your specific needs. A lot of multiplayer doesn't even need low ping, after all. Check out gamasutra and GDC vault. Lots of good bits in there.