this is why some of us have a natural resistance to going with the flow. I know I do but it's individually very costly but I like me this way (after many years

this is why some of us have a natural resistance to going with the flow. I know I do but it's individually very costly but I like me this way (after many years of feeling bad for having 'poor social skills'). I like to think this strengthens the group even if it's costly to the individual