You don't have to keep just one account. Find a community that doesn't refuse to federate with the instances you're interested in, or make another account in th

You don't have to keep just one account. Find a community that doesn't refuse to federate with the instances you're interested in, or make another account in the instance you're interested in, and log into both. IIRC you can even mix the news feeds in some apps. At worst it just becomes good old fashioned forums. Remember the 10s of forums & associated accounts we all had?