A pattern of assertion of parental control results in children denying being controlled in such a way that avoids punishment by interposing an excuse that mitig

A pattern of assertion of parental control results in children denying being controlled in such a way that avoids punishment by interposing an excuse that mitigates the punishment by ranking the current control below a former command. Do your homework - goes to room, ostensibly starts doing it Come here - come here, or supper = doing my homework(a prior command) stops the kid from doing the subsequent command. You and parent(s) have evolved this pattern. Parents often leave it at home and are OK at work. Kids enter working life and keep it up = bad boss, bad employee, bad co-worker. You can get therapy ($$$) or become an auto-didact on this topic = read from google self help courses, or find the books you need and read in a library. Books of this type often in a reference library = no loans = go there, look up the book in the stack and read it while you are there, making copies with phone or copier as warranted. https://afineparent.com/positive-parenting-faq/what-is-passive-aggressive-behavior.html https://afineparent.com/positive-parenting-faq/what-is-passi...