There's a phrase that I love that goes something like "I'd rather have questions without answers than answers that can't be questioned". My partner and I were

There's a phrase that I love that goes something like "I'd rather have questions without answers than answers that can't be questioned". My partner and I were talking about this today. She's very freed by the idea of not having religious "exercises" to go through and measure herself against. I am, too, but I still have this massive weight of self-loathing that I need to figure out. Phantom guilt that has no cause or reason, but still looks like it needs addressing, things like that. But I love being the captain of my own ship. My religion is whatever brings me lasting joy.