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Sorry, another point to add: Basically, from my observations, people who over-do niceness often have a profound fear of criticism. That's exactly why they over
by samh748 4y ago
Sorry, another point to add:
Basically, from my observations, people who over-do niceness often have a profound fear of criticism. That's exactly why they over-do nice in the first place, and keep asking questions to make sure they "get it right" (and thus, avoid criticism). So giving them honest feedback may backfire.
- giantg2 4y agoThis. I tried nicely explaining multiple times, but it seems this is the case. The attachment issues are there too - like she needs people to constantly care for (she does some volunteer work, so that helps). At this point I just try to leave it alone, be patient, and be kind.