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I love this. This reminds me of a personal tradition I have come up with for birthdays called "Two questions". If I'm invited to someone's birthday, I ask two q
by _virtu 4y ago
I love this. This reminds me of a personal tradition I have come up with for birthdays called "Two questions". If I'm invited to someone's birthday, I ask two questions:
- What was the most important thing that you learned this year?
- What was your favorite memory?
The main reason behind this is to learn about the person themselves and to also learn from their experience so maybe I don't have to first hand.
Outside of that, here's a brain dump of things I wish younger me knew and internalised sooner.
- Sleep is paramount for your long term health.
- Find an athletic pass time that you enjoy. I like mountain biking, find what you like.
- Stop consuming news and social media.
- Make reading a habit.
- Journal daily.
- Make writing second nature.
- Don't underestimate the unreasonable effectiveness of showing up every day. Doing a little of something every day is far better than doing mostly nothing every day.
- Define your sense of accomplishment. Don't be fooled by mimesis.
- You are more of a garden than a machine. Recognise that some days you don't feel good and some days you feel on top of the world.
- Appreciate your body's faculties. I've been sick recently and have realised how little I appreciate my ability to do even the most basic of things until I fall ill. Don't let that be the case.