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Don't spend too much time working on computers, or any other one thing, even if you're super into it. When you're young is a great time to start making social connections, so try to meet new people, expose yourself to new things. You're more likely to make lifelong friends when you're young, meet your spouse, etc. You don't make many new friends as you get older. The sooner you start saving, the richer you are when you retire. The longer you wait to start saving, the poorer you'll be for the rest of your life. By a lot. And the more you save (younger), the earlier you can retire. If you put everything away starting now, you can retire when you're 35. Imagine doing anything you want without needing a job for the final 2/3 of your life. https://www.jellyvision.com/wp-content/uploads/jellyvision-IR-youngPeopleBenefits-082720_2-2.svg https://www.jellyvision.com/wp-content/uploads/jellyvision-I... https://i.insider.com/58b98deb3c77028e02dc1e61 https://i.insider.com/58b98deb3c77028e02dc1e61 https://i0.wp.com/clark.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/06/savings-rate-early-retirement_3e27dch_large.png?resize=580%2C382&ssl=1 https://i0.wp.com/clark.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/06/savin... https://www.cnbc.com/2020/05/31/early-retirement-millionaire-saved-70-percent-of-income-lives-by-basic-money-rules.html https://www.cnbc.com/2020/05/31/early-retirement-millionaire... As far as relationships: remember that most of us see the world through what we want and how we feel, rather than seeing what a different person wants or feels. We can trick ourselves into thinking everything in a relationship is fine, because we feel fine... meanwhile the other person doesn't feel fine. Put yourself in their shoes, ask yourself (and them) what they want, how they feel. Develop Emotional Intelligence.