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Don't have kids until you're ready. Have kids when and if you're ready.

• gaetgu 5y ago
  No one is ever ready for kids. Wait until your spouse or partner agrees that they want kids, and go for it.
  • uniqueuid 5y ago
    That's right, but I'm sure you agree that there are different levels of "not ready". I was thinking of writing "have kids when you no longer think it completely out of the question", but that's a bit complicated.
• legitster 5y ago
  But don't overcorrect. Many people are ready for kids earlier than they think. From my dad, "it's a lot more fun raising teenagers in your 40s than in your 60s".
• BerislavLopac 5y ago
  Note: You will have no idea when you're ready.