I think you’re missing the point here. Depression is a bitch and it skews the perception of self and the world in hard to comprehend if one does not experience

I think you’re missing the point here. Depression is a bitch and it skews the perception of self and the world in hard to comprehend if one does not experience it themselves. And that comes with various degrees of severity where towards one end people just want out, they feel something unbearable. For a non sufferer of depression it makes a lot of sense to be happy that they reached a level where they can do whatever they want but with depression that desire ceases to exist.