I get what you're trying to say, but a) I just don't see a strong case for why the fundamental proposition that it all must be allowed is something we should al

I get what you're trying to say, but a) I just don't see a strong case for why the fundamental proposition that it all must be allowed is something we should all hold; b) I don't think, even given/assuming the desirability of allowing all speech, the tension you allude to is resolvable.