>it's that he doesn't actually believe the chores need to be done. This is an age old pattern. Pick any ten presidential biographies and I bet you eight of th

>it's that he doesn't actually believe the chores need to be done. This is an age old pattern. Pick any ten presidential biographies and I bet you eight of them have some passage about "my wife cared a lot about <household standard of cleanliness/orderliness/presentation thing> but I thought it was excessive" I'm sure someone familiar with ancient literature can find a few ancient Romans saying the same things.